How to Make Sex Last Longer

When it comes to sex, men and women are wired quite differently. While the man is happy to be Usain Bolt, the women prefer it if they were more akin to Lance Armstrong. Either ways, the duration bit is definitely one of the most difficult sync ups there are. Is there an in-between, a proverbial road less travelled, which will somehow prolong your time in the sack with your partner? There are several ways in which this can be done, their results may vary from person to person, and may be you might need to find one or a combination of a few ways to see what suits you best.

 Woman on Top: While this hasn’t been scientifically proven, the woman on top position is said (according to many men’s and women’s health websites) to prolong intercourse. Also, this position helps the woman control the depth and tempo of the act, and is quite the power trip (if that’s is your kind of thing).

Long, relaxed foreplay: Adopt what some love gurus call the gradual build-up technique. That’s just fancy talk for ‘don’t-rip-his/her-clothes-off-instead-indulge-in some-heavy-petting’. Indulge your more devious side with some roleplay, get a little more experimentative with erotic painting, or try something that will turn him on like a massage or something a bit more daring.

Administer the delay gel: If you’re tired of your man just rolling over after he’s had his fill (so to speak), you might want to take matters into your own hands (figuratively speaking). Talk about using a delay gel, a product whose active ingredient is benzocaine, which desensitises the member in question and makes him go longer. That being said this isn’t a cure for the problem, but more of a short term quick fix. 

Aphrodisiacal allure: Aphrodisiacs like champagne, oysters and strawberriesmaybe placebos at best, but they sure set the mood for a long, luxuriant evening or session in the sack.

Massage and candles: Who wouldn’t want to be pampered by a naughty masseuse, especially if the massageculminates in something a whole lot steamier. Set the ambience with aromatherapy candles and oils and volunteer tomassage him (read erotically, into a state of sheer bliss.) 

Remember that sexual satisfaction is a two way street and helping each other achieve fulfillment is the way to go to prolong every lovemaking session.